Well, after thinking about it a bunch and after some emails, and thanks to a few people who also responded to this thread, I may have changed my mind. I've been picking Dan's brain from Clear Image and I may just go for a full setup from him. It's a chunk of change, but absolutely everything is available in stainless steel, which should last a ridiculously long time. I've only had my car a year and it still has the entire, original factory stainless steel exhaust on it, and it surprisingly looks really good considering the age and mileage.
I threw a few curve balls at Dan, but he's been really good about answering my questions and getting me straightened out. Again, it's not the cheapest option, but it should be good quality stuff. And since a few others were already having headers done, he offered me a small discount if I ordered mine. And if he can get another order for a catback, it may be possible to talk him into a small discount for the both of us on that.
There's a few options that aren't on his website, (hence all my emails and questions to him) but his entire catback is available in stainless, and you've got a variety of options that would affect the sound. If you want loud, go with either muffler choice and no resonators, if you want quiet (which I did) he's got options for extra quiet versions of the mufflers (they widen them and add extra packing) and resonators, or anywhere in between.