Even given the short trip/cold weather problem, extended idling is hard on a cold engine/transmission. Better to start out with warm oil and warm coolant (which can also reduce the time the AT circulates cold fluid).
On various cars I've used combinations of frost plug heaters and a silicone heating pad for the oil pan, both plugged in maybe 45 minutes before cranking. Huge improvement--very easy cranking with the oil pan heater, and rapid cabin heat with the block heater.
For my Fleetwood, a block heater is gathering dust on the shelf (laziness), but the oil pan pad works great. I stuck it to a super-clean surface 9 years ago, RTV'd the edges to seal them, and it's still in place. It's possible to add a small one to the transmission pan but it doesn't get very cold here, and almost all my short trips are 5 miles one-way.
Given how short your son's trip is, the combo of all three could make a really nice difference in winter.
Kat's is the big maker of such stuff: Kat's