The Convenience Center!!! Great name for the most inconvenient relay I've ever had to remove. The Antenna relay.
The relay itself attaches to (slips on) the Convenience center bracket. On the rear of the relay (there are 6 male prongs) there are two tabbed female plug-ins. a three prong for the top half and the same for the lower half. both plug into the rear of the relay. There are tabs to press down for each connector that allow the connector to slide out the rear of the relay. I hope that made sense.
I attached a pic of upper connector pulled out of the rear of the relay.
For the future folks searching posts:
The antenna relay part number P/N is 10030273.
The Autozone Duralast part number is #20118 or 41-5603 (20118 is apparently not made anymore. and the 41-5603 has some type of added bracket on it. but it looks removable)
The O'reilly part number is #R3124 made by BWD aparently.
Thanks for the diagram Fuzzcar. Definitely saving that. If only I can find my FSM's
no clue where I put them.