Welcome to the forum--glad you're here, and you have a couple of very nice cars for us to drool over! The forum has given me a lot of great info and advice.
I'm gonna have to disagree with what you're doing
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Style matters—I get that. But...you say you've "Been thru 3 rims and too many tires to count." So, you drive your cars, and sometimes fast, so performance/safety counts more than style.
Do you realllly want to keep driving a 2 ton car at speed on lousy Texas roads with brutal pavement temperatures (or heavy rain) with a rim size that no GM or Jaguar engineer would ever recommend, with wheels that keep failing and cheap Chinese tires?
Are the tire sidewalls blowing out on pothole impacts, or the tires de-laminating from impact, heat, weight, speed? Any metal fatigue/cracking in your wheels? Doesn't really matter--the stuff you have just doesn't work for your car and conditions.
Carmakers don’t use giant wheels because they are fragile and cause all sorts of problems. Major tire brands don't make ultra-low-profile tires for giant wheels because they are fragile and expensive to design/make, and the relatively few customers who want them tend to be price-sensitive, so the tires have to cost less, which works against R&D and quality. You have the smoking-gun evidence in front of you.
Your retailers obviously don’t care because they keep selling you stuff that doesn’t work with your car and operating conditions. That should piss you off.
I’ve ragged on giant rims before. If style matters more than worse handling, worse acceleration, worse fuel consumption, worse braking, worse comfort, worse wear-and-tear on your suspension and drivetrain, worse tire life, and worse safety, go ahead. But, if you're going to actually drive the car, limit the size to where you can find parts that deserve some trust, parts from real brands with real engineers and reliable manufacturing. It’ll still screw up your car, but at least you can hope the wheels and tires won’t kill you, or somebody else.